Ok.. Soo, im going to go into some short details so feel free to skip this post or if you wanna know a little more details about my delivery, its here..
So the night before being induced I barely slept of course. Too anxious to rest. I woke up at 2:30am and showered and got everything completely together. Pete & I took the boys over to my parents house at about 4:15 and headed for the hospital. When we got there they told me all the beds were full and that I could either wait there or go home but I might as well go home cause it would likely be atleast 4 hrs. So we did. When we got home I was able to take a 1 1/2 nap. So then we get a call from my doctor and there are 4 woman waiting for rooms and it looks like it wont be happening today. He said we will reschedule for thursday evening and IF it freed up he would of course call me (I thought possibly a week before Id be holding my baby but her lungs werent ready and now I had to wait longer =( ) I got off the phone and just bawled. I was sooo upset. I thought I was for sure going to be holding my baby that day.. and even though it would only be 2 more days.. whos to say they wouldnt be busy then. So I had to text everyone ( i was in no shape to talk) that was planning on being at the hospital that it wasnt going to happen. My friend Amber wrote back.. have to thought about castor oil? I thought, no way.. what if I go into labor and they dont have a room for me (But a this point I really could of cared less if I had t oshare a room with someone. I didnt want to try castor oil but was totally down for the idea of trying to send myself into labor. So Pete, Amber, Tara , and Ashley and Me all went to Buffalo Wild Wings to get some HOT wings. Then the plan was to go walking, but I changed my mind and decided to go straight for the castor oil since that was more likely to actually work (we had called up a few people we knew It worked for and got all the details) After we got the castor oil we went to Ashleys house so I could be by the bathroom ( Castor Oil is kinda like vegetable oil and its really a laxative, its works to empty the bowels and also trys emptying the uterous. I drank 4oz. in a large glass of orange juice. It wasnt as bad as I thought it would be (id do it again) about 3 hrs. passed. During that time I got anxious so we went for a walk, tryed a little excersicing video =) haha. My sisters baby shower was that night so we left to releive her from my kids. I started having contractions as we were leaving. When we got home I started getting a some diarhea and more contractions. I took a bath because I was getting uncomfortable and then decided it was time to go to hte hopsital ( Yay!! Its actually working!!) So we walked my boys over to my moms. When I was at the door my sister and her pregnant friend were there and I started to cry in pain and figured I better leave quick before worrying them too much. So Pete and I are driving to the hospital, its about 6:30 and traffice (WONDERFUL) I was not feeling good. Finally we get there and we had to wait in the waiting room for about 20 min (I went to the bathroom 2xz while waiting (PLEASE dont let me have diahrea while im pushing htis baby out) So we get back in the make sure im in real labor and I am and dialated to a 3. My dr. has now been at the hospital on call for 12 hrs and is ready to go home, he admitts me but doesnt really wanna come back that night so tells them to let it all happen natural ( Dont break my water or give me pitocin to speed up, thanks doc is what im thinking) So we get into the room and my contractions start slowing down. Im feeling something but its not even showing on the chart (WHAT.. I could beleive it, she said maybe they were like braxton hicks but they werent contractions.. I was pissed cause I was hurting) She said it would likely be the next morning when I deliverd (The boys were almost 4 hrs flat, but induced by pitocin) so im thinking maybe I dont deliver quite as fast on my own (This is all about 8:45pm. So nurse comes to check me and I feel Kadence kick REAL HARD and then I feel fluid leaking out. I told her I think it just broke, she was under the impression it had already broke.. I told her not that I knew. So she checked and it broke. I was dialated to a 5. Within about 10 min I started having HARD CORE contractions one on top to the next. She checked me again and I was at a 7!! At that moment I thought.. im not going to be able to get the ephidural! THIS IS MY WORST NIGHTMARE!! I ask her " Can I get the ephidural" she calls for it. Within minutes im dying and she knows somehtings happening she checks again and says im at at 8 pushing 9 and I dont have time for the ephidural!! She literally just barley covers me back up and Im screaming that the baby head feels like its about to come out of me.. she flips the blanket back off and im at a 10. At this point I definatley have a whole new 10 in mind on a scale of 1-10. I am screaming and crying and grunting. Finally the pain eases up a little and its just horrible pressure. there telling me not to push that were waiting for my doctor but my body was pushing on its own. Ok.. so the next 10 min it just horrible and Im making all kinds or noises but the nurse was so awesome and kept praising me aand telling me I wasnt getting a break at all inbetween, they were non stop pain. I remember I kept asking if we could just do it with out my doctor and that I really didnt care if he was there =) At this point I just wanted her out. Finally he got the and they tried to get me to scoot down and bend my knees. I barely was able to scoot down and I could barely force myslef to bend my knees. Pete had never watched my boys come out and preffers being by my head but I guess I was kicking to nurse so she asked him to help hold my legs. I was prayer alot in my head and I know thats why I pushed ONLY 1 X and my beautiful baby girl was out!!It was the most intense pain ever and I cant not understand why anyone would CHOOSE to do this. I looked down and the first thing I thought was wow.. shes tiny, SHE FELT enormous!! She was gorgeous even right after she popped out!! I oculd stop looking at her but of course i tore so I had the undergo some more pain while he stiched me back up. That was painful but nothing compared to before. The nurse asked her name and I said Kadence and then though (wait this all happend so fast i didnt ask Pete the middle name he chose) So I looked over and asked him " Aubri " I LOVE it!!! So Kadence Aubri Almanza was born 5/5/09 10:32pm (10 hrs after castor oil) and 7 hrs after some contractions but 41/2 after they were close enough to count). Weighing 6lbs. 8 oz. and 18 1/2 inches long. My smallest baby thankfully was the one I did without the ephidural!! So all in all she has been my hardest pregnancy and delivery but I would od it all again in a heart beat. Plus she is SUCH a good baby. The boys have taken uunbelievably well to her. Jaiden would hold her 24/7 if we let her and Rylan is soo sweet to her. She is totally putting up great with them to and there constant kisses and touching her. We love her more than words could say and cant believe she ours!!